What Brides say are their biggest regrets; don’t let this happen to you

·      Not having a professional photographer

·      Not having a videographer

·      Not having an open bar

·      Not personalizing the ceremony

·      Not wearing comfortable shoes during the reception

·      Not having enough food

·      Not getting makeup and hair done professionally

·      Not paying attention to details

·      Not doing what the bride and groom wanted

·      Not researching venues

·      Not setting a budget

·      Not sticking to the budget

·      Not buying the dress she really wanted

·      Not having a “must” play list for the DJ/Band

·      Not having an emergency kit

·      Not eating before the ceremony

·      Not drinking enough water during the ceremony

·      Not getting enough sleep the night before

·      Too much partying the night before

·      Putting more focus on the marriage instead of the wedding

·      Feeling pressured to have everyone in the bridal party

·      Drinking too much during the ceremony

Number 1 Regret Brides have:

Not slowing down and cherishing her Wedding Day
My advice to you is to take a few deep breaths many, many times during your wedding. Take the time to cherish your guests, all the special moments, and especially, your groom!!!

Always and Forever Florida Weddings
Reverend Arlene Ponack
alwaysandforeverfloridaweddings.com
alwaysandforeverflweddings@gmail.com
(407) 271-2430

What Every Bride needs to know

Wedding Advise Every Bride Needs To Know

Book your vendors early

Top of Form Bottom of Form Plan the day for yourself, not for others Get the groom involved, it’s is wedding too Pamper yourself before your wedding, want an excuse to go to the spa?  Your wedding!!! Remember to allow time to visit tables during your reception Seat older guest away from loud music Pick a song for your first dance that has meaning for both of you Remember evening weddings are more formal than day time weddings Have someone else do your hair and makeup, you will be too nervous Consider having your wedding and reception at the same location, its easier for everyone Send your invitations out 6 – 8 weeks before the wedding Send thank you notes out no later than 3 months after the wedding Don’t invite guest you really do not want to see at your wedding Stick to your budget Go over the types of pictures of want with your photographer ahead of time Go over a do not play and do play song list with your DJ or Band Take dance lessons for your first dance together Select dresses that will flatter everyone in your bridal party Don’t forget to offer a vegetarian option on your menu If you have guests who keep kosher, have a kosher option on your menu Do not seat divorced parents at the same table Make sure you are comfortable with your choice of vendors If working on a tan, start early so you are not red or peeling on your wedding day Consider offering sparkling cider for guests that do not drink alchol Decide ahead of time how many children you both want, who is doing the finances, who is doing the cooking, laundry, cleaning and other household chores. Attend bridal shows Order a small bouquet for the bouquet toss, keep your bouquet as a momento Have a tasting for your reception food and your wedding cake If you have an outdoor ceremony be sure to have a backup in case of bad weather Pay all vendors in a timely manner Wear waterproof mascara Get a good nights sleep the night before Do not let friends and family talk you into something you do not want for your wedding Make sure you eat something on your wedding day Do not drink too much at your wedding, you want to remember everything Do not get a haircut too close to your wedding Enjoy yourself

Why hire Wedding Professionals for your Wedding Day

Hire Professionals: They Are Worth Their Weight In Gold

Professionals are Committed to YOU!!!
Using friends and family to do the jobs as professionals can ruin relationships. When you hire a professional, many times you need to pay a deposit to hold that date. That is a HUGE commitment. The deposit guarantees they will be there for YOU. Friends and family may change their minds months before, not show up when they said they would, and this is not a time to find out if your friend really cares at all.


Professionals have EXPERIENCE!!!
Hiring professionals with experience will help reduce your stress level before and during the wedding! If you use friends and family, your may worry if they do the job that is expected from them.  Experienced vendors provide advice and knowledge that is priceless. They can help you avoid costly mistakes and help you spend your money more wisely and effectively. 


Professionals help with glamours weddings!!!

If you are wondering if you should hire a professional, think about all the beautiful weddings you see on TV and in magazines, even if it looks simple, it’s not simple, professionals just make it look that way! You may be asking yourself; “Why does everything cost so much?” Most people do not understand what a business owner needs to pay because most people work for a business, does their job, and earns a salary. Wedding vendors are like a CEO of a business  and CEOs need to factor in costs like paying rent on office space, taxes, advertising, insurance, education, labor, talent, software licenses, phone,  cable internet lines, and more before the business owner may collect a salary.

Professionals can save you money!!!

Hiring a professional equals value and value can often save you money in the end. Professionals pay attention to details, have the knowledge, and the resources that keep you from making unfavorable mistakes so you and your family can enjoy your special day.

Why hire a professional wedding officiant

A trained, experienced, professional wedding officiant can help you design a wedding ceremony that is right for you. It is important to find one that is not just willing but is eager to perform the kind of ceremony you dream of.  You need to find an officiant that is willing to work with you to design, write, and edit your ceremony. A wedding officiant sets the tone for the entire wedding day.  Couples should have a ceremony that is memorable and meaningful.

Questions you should ask your

wedding officiant:

Is the officiant available on your wedding date?

Can the officiant travel to your chosen wedding site?

How long has the officiant been performing weddings?

Are the ceremonies customized to fit your needs?

Can you write your own vows?

Can family members or friends do prayers or special readings?

Can the officiant include religious touches if desired?

Will the officiant allow you to specify details such as music, vows, and readings?

How flexible is the officiant to change parts of the ceremony?

What is the process for creating your ceremony?

Is there anything they will not say or do?

Will the officiant marry you if you are of different faiths?

Are there any restrictions as to your attire or the bridal party’s attire?

Can the officiant legally wed people in your state?

Is the officiant available for the wedding rehearsal?

Are there any hidden charges?

Does the officiant require a microphone and if so, what kind does the officiant prefer?

Are there any restrictions on photography or videography?

Always and Forever Florida Weddings
Reverend Arlene Ponack
alwaysandforeverfloridaweddings.com
alwaysandforeverflweddings@gmail.com
(407) 271-2430